Smoking

Different fetish desires revolve around the consumption of tobacco products. Are you personally a non-smoker, or an occasional smoker? In the erotic and BDSM context, are you fascinated by the aspects of sensual play, tease & denial, D/S and pain play that smoking fetishism offers? I am passionate about role play.

A distinction is made between smoking fetishism, which refers to the sensual act of smoking, and smoke fetishism, which refers to the smoke/fumes that are produced during this act!

For some fetishists, the entire erotic fantasy focuses on watching a woman smoking, for others on inhaling the air that is sensually or dominantly expelled when smoking; for others, however, cigarettes are simply one of many possible means of achieving a certain overarching purpose, e.g. pain play, fear or disgust effects, breath play, etc. You are totally into women who smoke. Seeing a woman smoke is super sexy?

Do you particularly like it when a woman smokes right in your face and uses your mouth as her complete ashtray, with squeezing and swallowing? The more a woman smokes, the better? Whatever your personal kick is, talk to me about it. I will then decide whether I can and want to live out your fantasy with you.

Feminine and masculine smoking eroticism

A large part of the smoking fetish is of a voyeuristic nature: some subs get ecstatic when they can watch in peace how their lady’s tender lips wrap around the “cigarette” again and again – perhaps even consciously the slim, long cigarettes, which are considered particularly feminine. Some are aroused by the lipstick mark on the “dead” cigarette.

It can be a very erotic act when I smoke directly into your mouth and nose and SHARE a cigarette with you in this way. Amazingly, even sworn non-smokers enjoy the passive smoking that is forced upon them in this way in appropriately agreed sessions, despite this or perhaps because of it (it can also be a humiliation play!).

But some smokers also like to inhale my smoky breath instead of directly pulling on a cigarette. Often, you get very close physically during these sessions: the body snuggles up to the body of the “intoxicated smoker”, and blowing smoke directly into the mouth of the sub acts like a special variant of the “dominant kiss”. Of course, the alternating observation of a lasciviously smoking woman and the feeling and inhaling of her smoke-filled breath very often combine to create a complex sensory experience.

Games with ash and embers: Where there is smoking, there is ash. Their dirtiness is often included in smoke fetishism in dominatrix studio sessions! And their glow can cause pain play. Object to servant Ash table or ashtray: It is often common in dominatrix and slave sessions for a smoking dominatrix to use her sub as an ashtray. It is usually more about the voluntary devotion of the sub, kneeling in front of the master or mistress and submissively handing over the ashtray or becoming a “human ashtray” themselves: holding out their cupped hand to catch the flicked cigarette ash, or in more extreme cases opening their mouth and sticking out their tongue.

In my experience, human ashtrays are not really about smoking fetish, but it can be well integrated into fetish play to use the voyeuristic and/or smoke-inhaling partner as a “human ashtray”.

Cigarette branding: While in games involving ash and heat, burns and blisters are usually avoided, cigarette stubs on bare skin intentionally cause permanent scars. This is a special form of branding.